DIY Beauty Tips



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Cutting down on everyday expenses means learning how to do things on your own.

That’s exactly what I did when I became a stay-at-home mom. 

Gone are the days I would go to the salon for a simple wash and blow out, or to dye my roots.

Since learning how to do my own hair, I went from spending almost $150 a month at the salon to spending close to $20 on box dyes. Of course, you have to factor in the amount of electricity I use blow-drying my hair.

The good news is, I only straighten my hair at least once a month, so that helps.



Comfort In A Box
I’ve always been told at-home dyes are similar to the ones they use at the salon. It’s all about the technique. My uncle would always tell me how he dyes his wife’s hair every month. How awesome is that? 

By purchasing at-home hair dye kits, I save on cash and time. Time is important when you’re home with your kids, and sometimes you don’t have an hour to spend at a salon. When you’re there, you’re on the hairstylist’s time. I rather be on my time, and do things when I can. I will admit that it does mean I end up with dark roots every two months. I just have to stay on top of it. Eventually, I’ll set up a schedule for that too.

For less than $60, I dyed my naturally medium brown hair to golden ash. My hair has natural red streaks in it, so I would have to add a special treatment to help minimize the amount of natural red that mixes in with the box dye. Personally, I like the color it’s turned out to be.

Using an at-home hair dye kit allows me time with the kids. While they nap, play or eat a snack, I apply the hair dye and let it work it’s magic as I make dinner or clean up.

My hair has grown so much over the years. It’s at about an inch above my waist. When my hair was shoulder-length, it would take an hour at the salon. Could you imagine how much time it would take now? 

Getting Dolled Up
Dressing up is rare in our home. Unless we’re reuniting with family and friends, or going out to dinner with our little family, I rarely ever wear pants. Now, our firstborn does the same.

Moving to South Florida meant starting over, and finding the right hairstylist, eyebrow-threading place and nail salon would take research. As much as I don’t mind researching things for my family, finding the right beauty spots is more of a headache than a blessing. My hair is curly and thick, and because it’s long, some salons see this as a money-making opportunity.

I get it, curly hair isn’t as easy as straight, but it’s still hair.

I’ve created my own hair regimen: wash, air-dry, blow-dry and (it necessary) flat-iron it. On most days, I just wash and use leave-in conditioner to help minimize the frizziness.

Regardless of whether or not I straighten my hair or leave it curly, it always ends up in a top bun.



If you’re looking to minimize the amount of money you spend beautifying yourself every month, you’ll need to keep a couple of things in mind:

1. Realize you’re already beautiful.
I know this might seem silly, but you can spend a lot of time and money trying to perfect yourself when you’re only covering up insecurities. No matter what shade you dye your hair or what makeup you throw on, you’ll always wake up with the same face. Learn to love yourself first.

2. Try (almost) everything.
Whether you’re trying to eliminate or minimize the amount of frizz in your hair, you have to read up on the different products available. I remember when I went back to using silicone in my hair. After years of not using it, my hair was healthy again. I used it because a YouTube user suggested it for curls. I didn’t think twice about the impact it would have on my hair.

3. Learn the techniques.
I didn’t go to beauty school to learn how do my hair. I watched how the hairstylists did it. Every hairstylist has their own technique, but you can pretty much pick up on the basics such as the type of brush and products they use on your hair. Observe the steps, and practice them often.

4. Make time for yourself.
Straightening my hair takes at least 45 minutes. There are 24 hours in a day, I find time in a month or two to do it because it makes me feel nice. It also means I don’t have to worry about going out with my damp hair all the time.

I hope you try a couple of these tips or at least remember numbers one and four. They can really change the way you view yourself.

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34 Comments

  1. Katrina Jean Carter

    October 31, 2016 at 10:25 AM

    I love all these tips and I think they are all very useful and helpful 🙂 Thanks for sharing! I rarely wear pants as well and love dying my hair myself as a treat!

  2. Julie Maloney

    October 31, 2016 at 11:06 AM

    I’m super lucky with my hair. It’s pin straight and doesn’t frizz. I just wash it and let it air dry and it’s good to go the next morning and lasts me about three days. I don’t even put product in it. The color is another thing. This kind of blonde can’t be done with a box. I’ve tried. I get mine every seven weeks.

  3. Fatima Zehra

    October 31, 2016 at 11:06 AM

    Such a helpful post! I always struggle with beauty routines so this helped out a lot, thanks!

  4. Kimberly Lewis

    October 31, 2016 at 1:08 PM

    This is perfect! Thanks for sharing!

  5. Imaobong

    October 31, 2016 at 1:26 PM

    I like that understanding you’re still beautiful, without all the extras, is the first on this list.
    That’s the most important thing — because at the end of the day, all the face beat has to go off, and you need to still feel as confident as you did earlier.

  6. Melanie Smith

    October 31, 2016 at 1:32 PM

    Those are the best DIY beauty tips! Really, sometimes we just have to know how beautiful we are.

  7. Mihaela Echols

    October 31, 2016 at 4:03 PM

    Oh man when I saw the title of this it was a must read! I like the tips you give us. Be natural, yourself. cuz your already beautiful.

  8. Hey Sharonoox

    October 31, 2016 at 5:23 PM

    Great tips and a good reminder! I blog about everything beauty and the only low maintenance I can think of is my hair. I don’t go to salon much either. I like putting my hair on pony tail or top bun.

  9. Amber Myers

    October 31, 2016 at 6:25 PM

    These are all great tips!

    I rarely get dolled up. I’d rather read. But sometimes I do fix my hair in a way other than a ponytail.

  10. Jessica

    October 31, 2016 at 7:52 PM

    I love reading posts about moms taking care of themselves. I am going through something similar right now after having lived in South Florida for about 12 years and now relocating to a small town in Central Florida last summer. I finally got brave enough to start trying out nail salons a couple of months ago and found one that I love just last week. It makes for some great me time and my nails look good lol

  11. R U S S

    October 31, 2016 at 10:10 PM

    Learning the techniques – love this! We want to have this certain look or want our hair to be like this, but it could be tedious to go to salons & a little pricey to get make-up lessons so yes … learning the techniques is super important.

    Over the past few years, I’ve become better at putting make-up most especially the brows and I love it! I did the same with my hair. I invested in a good hair iron and I’ve been super duper happy with it because now I dont need to go to the salon every day. Lol.

    I’m still a work-in-progress in these areas, but there’s nothing like the joy of being able to do things nicely on your own. Talk about life’s simple pleasures that we can readily enjoy.

  12. Crystal Gard

    October 31, 2016 at 10:38 PM

    Enjoy d reading about these techniques

  13. Amy Jones

    November 1, 2016 at 1:09 AM

    These tips are so great! It’s all about feeling empowered in your own skin

  14. Tiffany Cardenas

    November 1, 2016 at 1:49 AM

    These are great tips. I don’t dye my hair, but the grays are coming in more and more so I see it in my near future.

  15. Jojo Vito

    November 1, 2016 at 7:28 AM

    Great tips for women. I do agree especially on making time for yourself…it is a privilege and a right 🙂

  16. Cait Weingartner

    November 1, 2016 at 8:22 AM

    Thanks for sharing these great tips! When the budget it tight, the first place I tend to cut back is in the salon department. But, at least now, my hair can still look great!

  17. Krystel @ Planning The Magic

    November 1, 2016 at 12:28 PM

    This was great, I could really work on making more time for myself. I hate anything that has to do with changing how I wake up (besides the obvious) to please others. It’s not like a I’m looking at myself throughout the day.

  18. Laura

    November 1, 2016 at 1:36 PM

    Great strategies. Christmas is a great time to get dressed up.

  19. Colette S

    November 1, 2016 at 2:31 PM

    Oh yes, I had to stop going to the salon many years ago. It was getting so expensive and only my husband was working.

    But I love your tips, Especially #1
    Thanks for sharing this article.

  20. Bill S

    November 1, 2016 at 5:53 PM

    I love these tips!!! Dressing up is so important to do every once in a while it can really refresh your outlook and mindset.

  21. Dawn McAlexander

    November 1, 2016 at 6:48 PM

    These are some great tips. I know a few people who need to adhere to them a little more. There is a such a thing as too much makeup.

  22. Milena

    November 1, 2016 at 7:38 PM

    I love these tips. We all must remember that we are beautiful all the time! (Especially us moms!)

  23. Echo

    November 1, 2016 at 9:17 PM

    I love this! I have given up a few things in order to make ends meet and to get things for the kids. Realizing that you are beautiful enough is all it takes. It helps that my husband reminds me everyday!

  24. Claudette Esterine

    November 1, 2016 at 9:33 PM

    I am lucky in that my daughter is a stylist so I can in fact get the professional look done at home. 🙂

  25. Elizabeth O.

    November 2, 2016 at 12:51 AM

    I’ve always been doing things myself in terms of the “beauty” area aside from getting a hair cut. There’s really so much that you can save when you cut back on beauty products and salon trips.

  26. Jessie K

    November 2, 2016 at 12:58 AM

    Wonderful tips! My beauty regimen has completely changed since having kids. Lots of simplifying.

  27. Carol Cassara

    November 2, 2016 at 3:52 AM

    I like the idea of doing things on my own, or learning how to do things on my own. Especially when it comes to fixing myself up or taking care of my looks.

  28. janella panchamsingh

    November 2, 2016 at 8:39 AM

    These are great tips you have provided to relax and reset our bodies

  29. Enricoh Alfonzo

    November 2, 2016 at 7:50 PM

    Awesome DIY tips & tricks. #madrespect for your 1st point. realize you are already beautiful. it’s the best advice you can give

  30. Terri Beavers

    November 3, 2016 at 9:11 AM

    Thank you for your tips and information. I’ve always had such bad luck with home kits but maybe I just need to learn how to do it right.

  31. Tara L

    November 3, 2016 at 3:14 PM

    I have natural curly hair, and I swear you not. I have never dyed my hair or colored it at all. I guess I’m just not the typical woman to get all that done and I’m happy because then I’d be broke because I’d want to go get it constantly.

  32. Robin Rue

    November 7, 2016 at 7:16 AM

    I definitely do a lot of my beauty routine at home myself. It is true that you really need to have trials and error with some things to get what you like.

  33. Anosa

    November 19, 2016 at 3:02 PM

    I always make time to treat myself, its important to self-pamper as thats good for the soul. Lovely tips

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