Pain Makes You Stronger

You never know how fast things can escalate until someone draws the last straw. 
And fortunately, that was all I needed to open my eyes. 
After a verbally abusive relationship I realized I wanted more. And once he laid his hands on me, I knew it was over. 
I was 19, but I knew I deserved more. 
Change For The Better
He called me naive because I believed everyone was genuine. 
With him, I learned not to trust everyone. Including him. 
But when I walked away, I gained so much more. 
They say you don’t need to reinvent the wheel, but you can always improve from it. That’s what I did. 
I didn’t go back to being just me.  I became a better version of myself. And everyone who knew this version of me loved her just as much as I had fallen for her. 
Strong, care-free, and most importantly, genuinely happy. 
That’s when I knew I was ready for true love. 
Because I knew how important it was to first love myself, and all the amazing people who cherished the person I had become, I knew that’s what I needed more than anything. And if at any point I was going to meet someone, this person would love who I was regardless. 
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Former B2B editor and marketing manager turned Family & Lifestyle blogger. Fatima is passionate about life and being social. When she isn't running around with her husband, three kids, and two pups, Fatima helps other bloggers and local businesses with their online marketing strategy. If you have any questions or would like to connect, feel free to reach out via email: tima@motherhoodthroughmyeyes.com

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