Life Changes Since Becoming A Mom

Seeing a small faded line on a pregnancy test was all it took to realize there was more to life than a career. My thoughts on moving up the ladder were changed in the fall of 2012. For that summer, I was going to be holding a baby boy in my arms.

Knowing that I was going to be a parent frightened me, but it was an exciting new challenge I was slowly preparing myself to face.

As our first child continued to grow inside of me, I began to feel different types of emotions. Fear was always on my mind, but love was there as well. I learned the importance of creating a loving environment when I knew we were bringing a life into this world.

Soft music, calm settings. Everything was somewhat organized — organized chaos, at least.
Unexpect Everything
This year marks the sixth year since my husband and I went on our first date. I didn’t think it would lead to such a pleasant surprise.

Unmarried, a year out of college and about a year into my career seemed like a recipe for disaster. Fortunately, it wasn’t. Together, Jeff and I were able to overcome some of the obstacles of living together during the first year. Of course, we threw in a pup into the mix before even having our baby boy, but somehow we were able to manage.

It wasn’t until we had our second child that I began to notice more changes in me. Our firstborn taught me what it means to create a loving environment and appreciate the beauty of life.

With our second, I learned the importance of letting go of the people and things that aren’t helping me become the person I want to be. There were many times I had to question whether or not I was surrounding myself with certain people and things because I wanted to make them happy or myself. If having these people/things around was hurting the person I was becoming, then I began to cut them off.

Today, I fight to keep myself away from all of this. It’s been a hard process, but well worth it.

Since having our third, I’ve learned to speak my mind in many ways than one. After finding myself and loving all there is to me without the negativity I had let go, there was more to love about who I am. I’ve learned to embrace it, and for that I am thankful.

They say children teach us more than we could ever imagine, and I have to agree. I probably wouldn’t have become the person I am today had I not had these three loves in my life.

Did your pregnancy impact the way you are today? Let me know in the comments below: 

22 Comments

  1. Beautiful and insightful post on life, learning, and motherhood. I don’t have children and am not sure if I ever will, but thank you for sharing your story! It’s cool to see how having children can teach adults a thing or two…

  2. Beautiful expression..Parenthood does change the outlook..

  3. Beautiful post, and I wholeheartedly agree. I always knew I wanted to be a stay at home, and I’ve thrown homeschooling all 4 into that mix too. And who cares about all the naysayers, who needs them? It’s your life, after all, ad your family’s.

  4. Your story just made us more excited to become parents. We’re TTC this year and hopefully we start seeing that line on our preg test kit.

  5. Thank you for sharing your candid ideas. Yes, its so true that kids can teach us so much. But it can always happen when we are open to learn. Kudos to your spirit to learn something new each time.

  6. What a beautiful post! I am glad that you learned precious things about life with your kids.

  7. Parenting is ever demanding yet satisfying journey. As you grow with your children, you realize you are now a better person. A person who is more caring, more loving, more responsible and more understanding. Motherhood is the best thing in the world.

  8. Being a parent does change us. I even kind of felt having lost my identity early on after giving birth, but I’m now rediscovering myself. But motherhood did impact a lot – making me feel things I’ve never felt before. It’s a wonderful and scary feeling at the same time.

  9. I can so relate. My kids completely changed me. I can never forget my pregnancy and their delivery. It was a lovely experience.

  10. This was a lovely read. I believe that you were lucky to find a man who will walk by your side as you raise your children in the first place.

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