Stop Asking Stay-At-Home Moms What Do They Do All Day

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Since becoming a full-time mom, I have been asked several questions about my personal life, my goals, etc. I do not mind those so much, it is when someone asks, “What do you do all day?” Followed by, “Do you ever get bored?” that really gets to me.

“So, what do you DO all day?”
Most of the time, I am caring for my son. Once he takes his naps — yes, plural (2)– I escape to tidy up, work on my blog or other projects. I really do not have time to sit and think about whether or not I am bored. However, I do sometimes question what I plan to make for dinner or what to munch on.

Growing up, whenever I was bored my mom would say to pick up a book or do something around the house because there was always something that needed to be done.

And she was right about that. The cleaning never ends, the laundry always piles up, and most importantly, the laughs are constant. I would not trade it for anything in the world. <3

I will admit that I spend a lot of my down time checking my social media sites and planning ahead, but can you really blame this millennial mommy? I do wish I read more. I have a couple of books I have started to read in the last two years and I cannot seem to get through them. Something always comes up. In the next couple of weeks, I am hoping to finish Martin Lindstrom’s “Buyology” — I know, he’s written another book since this one was published. Ann Handley’s latest, titled: “Everybody Writes” came in this week, so I really want to get through one before starting the next. Oh, and not to mention Gary Vaynerchuk’s “Jab, Jab, Jab, Right Hook” that I keep skimming through for new ideas. Sorry, Gary. I promise I will eventually read it from cover to cover!  

I hope everyone is having a wonderful week.

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  1. Well said. We stay at home moms work 24/7 no days off. I enjoy my crazyness. And no time to get bored with a 2 year old. ♡ LOVE YOUR POST

  2. Thank you for your feedback. 🙂 And yes, it's around the clock and there are no sick days!

  3. I think no one should ever ask anyone what they do all day because they are bound to get offended. I have a friend who works in a library and she gets mad when people say all she does is read all day.

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